Marriage is a sunnah
exalted by Allah SWT. In addition to seeking His pleasure, married also be one way as a door opener sustenance. Allah SWT always suffice sustenance married couples, although only one of them worked.
As it turned out, not only by working just a couple can bring sustenance. But with edify as well as it does good, then easily provision would often come to a family.
If the husband is usually responsible for a living, so wives also have other responsibilities are no less important. Behavior wife turned out to be little or how much impact the sustenance gained husband. By recognizing the following characteristics wife, married couples can improve provision that might have faltered over the years.
1. Recognizes Women In Allah and His Messenger
Prior to marry a woman, he should consider the following four factors namely because
(1) beauty, (2) the offspring, (3) his wealth, and (4) his religion.
However, of the four factors of religious factor should be the main concern. It would be very lucky to get these four factors.
If a woman with religious factors of course she is a woman who obey Allah and His Messenger. Not only that, women with this trait will also carry household to heaven and bring tranquility in the family. Thus, the family will be happy, peaceful, comfortable, and that's very valuable sustenance.
Households headed by a pious imam and his wife accompanied sholehah would make these households received a blessing from Allah SWT. Not quite up there, the marriage will produce children who are pious and sholehah, as well as getting good pleasure and mercy of God.
2. Recognizes Woman In Her husband
If I could get someone to bow down to other people surely I'll get a wife to prostrate to her husband (transmitted by Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah). That hadith Rasullah about how the main become obedient wife to her husband. Being sholehah wife must obey her command submarine command was not opposed to religion.
With such compliance, it will make the hearts of husbands to be quiet and peaceful. That is what causes the husband easily implement their obligation seeking lawful sustenance for his family. However, if a fixed wife is a career outside the home must obtain the prior permission of her husband. In addition, he also must be able to keep themselves well in the workplace.
"The man is a leader on women because Allah has preferred some of them (men) over others (women) and to cause something they (men) means to spend on a treasure-treasure. So virtuous women are obedient longer maintain themselves behind her husband as God has kept him. " (Q.S. An Nisa: 34).
3. Women who Serve Her husband with Good
Being a wife should know what your duties and obligations. Household duties and serve her husband well and educate their children is the main duty of a wife. Sholehah wife who is always trying to serve her husband well as preparing breakfast, supply needs, meet the biological needs
and keep the feeling of her husband not to hurt badly because of the wife.
Women who have this attitude will be the favorite wife of her husband and be a good partner in realizing households sakinah and attract positive things into the household. including draw sustenance lawful for her husband.
4. Women who Dressing Just for husband
"Indeed, the world is the best of jewelry and jewelry world are women salehah" (transmitted by Muslim). Women are creatures like the ornate and beautify themselves. However, a woman who sholehah only berhiaas and reveal the jewels to her husband alone. When a wife is always seen as fun and know how to make her husband happy then the angel had come to pray that God will facilitate sustenance comes to him.
5. If the Left Maintain Honor and treasure Husband
When the husband came out to look for a living, then the obligations of an abandoned wife is to be able to keep his honor. In addition, he also had to keep himself from inappropriate guests, limit out of the house if the business is not so important. In addition, women should be able to maintain the inheritance to her husband and used it on things that benefit the permission of her husband. Women who have these traits will make an easy fortune into her house as the reward of obedience to God and loyalty to her husband.
6. Women Who Always Asking husband Ridha Thereon
Wife characteristic carrier further sustenance is he who always ask the husband's approval upon it. Women with this trait knows how to please the husband and can maintain the attitude and behavior is not to offend and hurt the feelings of her husband. He always tried to keep her husband was never angry with him. He was not going to bed angry or leave her husband in anger to get her forgiveness. Brought her husband joked can also make a husband happy as can cheer marriage.
Such a wife was a itri who became residents of heaven, Hadith Rasulullah "Will you let me tell wives who become inhabitants of paradise that is the wife of a loving, many children, always go back to her husband, which, if her husband angry she went to her husband and put her hand on her husband's hand and said "I can not sleep until you pleasure" (HR. An Nasai). Wife like this is a woman who facilitated sustenance through her husband's hand for practice and fidelity to her husband,
7. Women who Receive Giving Husband By Ikhlas
Wife characteristic carrier further sustenance is he who never complained of her husband's administration. This woman always received with sincere and appreciates any given her husband. He was always grateful for what her husband obtained even if only a little. Women are always grateful and sincere this provision will continue to increase both the quantity and God's blessing will be given to him or through him.
8. Women Can Become a Partner Reaching Ridha Allah
Wife who makes household as a land of worship and devotion to Allah SWT could be impartial discussion colleagues for her husband. Not only that, it also can make corrections and submit it gently to her husband. In addition, women who have this trait can also be a motivator husband for success in this world and hereafter. That is what led to the emergence of the phrase "behind a successful man there is a great woman behind".
9. Women are Never End Prayers for husband
Feature sustenance of the last carrier woman is a woman who always received the destiny of Allah but still trying to pray for her husband and children in order to succeed in this world and hereafter. Routines pray never disconnected from this woman, being a decorator's lips after running the daily prayer. Women like these that will bring sustenance to her husband because they always involve God at every step of her husband through prayer recited daily.
That's 9 traits carrier sustenance for her husband's wife. So fortunately lelaku getting a wife with these characteristics. However, if it does not get such a wife is the husband's obligation to educate his wife to always be in the way of Allah and bring the household to His heaven.
